Step 3: Dreaming and Creating
the Life YOU Want

Exploring and Refining Your Dream

Here is a 3 night technique for exploring and refining your dream:

During the day think lightly of you goal. Imagine what having your goal would be like. Are you happy? Do you smile when you think of it? Does it feel in harmony with where you want to be? If not, you probably want to rethink your goal.

Night 1: Before bed, ask Spirit (or the universe, God, angels, etc...), to show you how life would be fulfilled if you achieved this goal? Change your goal if you wish, and lightly think of it all day.

Night 2: Before bed, ask Spirit (or the universe, God, angels, etc...), to show you if there is something better to ask for? Change your goal if you wish, and lightly think of it all day.

Night 3: Before bed, ask Spirit (or the universe, God, angels, etc...), to if there is someway to have it be even better?

Creating a True Picture

Here is another exercise that can help you really visualize your goal:

Create a poster with your goals. Use both words and pictures. This creates a physical picture that you can look at many times a day to remind you of your goals. Pictures can be drawn, painted and/or cut from magazines.

I find that having a physical reminder that I see everyday extremely effective.

Filling in More Details

There are many many techniques for creating and handling change in the following book: How to Master Change in Your Life : 67 Ways to Handle Life's Toughest Moments by Mary Carroll Moore. Here is an exercise from this book (page 39) that may help you:

Exercise: Write a Life Proposal

1) Write a one page proposal, as you would for a business, describing the role you'd take on if this step became real.

2) Write the daily responsibilities you'd have in this position, the expectations of others around you, the achievements you would bring about in your life, the inner skills you'd need to develop in order to fulfill this role (confidence? a better sense of timing? more love?).

This is a very powerful exercise to see you as a cocreator in your life.

More Imaginative Techniques

Another excellent book for helping you create the life you want is: The Science Of Getting Rich by Wallace Delois Wattles. It goes through imaginative techniques that really work.

Go to the next step: Effective Goal Planning